Frequently Asked Questions on Family Law in Wisconsin
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- What is a no-fault divorce?
- What is a divorce?
- What is a legal separation?
- What is child support used for?
- How are custody and visitation issues decided?
- When can a child support order be changed or modified?
- My income dropped dramatically when I was laid off from my job and I cannot make my child support payments. Is there any way I can lower my child support payments?
- What is collaborative/cooperative law?
- What types of family law disputes can be resolved with collaborative law or cooperative law?
- What do I need to consider when selecting a lawyer?
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A no-fault divorce is one where the spouse suing for divorce does not have to prove that the other spouse did something wrong. To file for a no-fault divorce, one spouse must simply state a reason recognized by the state. In most states, it’s as easy as affirming that the couple cannot get along (e.g., incompatibility, irreconcilable differences or irremediable breakdown of the marriage).
A divorce is the legal termination of marriage. All states require a spouse to identify a legal reason for requesting a divorce when filing the divorce papers with the court. The reasons given when filing are referred to as the grounds for divorce.
Legal separation is a legal status conferred by a court, where the parties remain married, but the court sets the rights and liabilities of the parties with respect to child custody, support, visitation, alimony, property and debts. The process of legal separation is sometimes called separate maintenance. A decree of separate maintenance cannot later be converted to a divorce decree. If parties in a legal separation later desire a divorce, they must file a new divorce action.
Child support covers everything a child needs, and even more, during the growth and formative years. Keep the following in mind: a parent’s first and principal obligation is to support his or her minor children according to the parent’s circumstances and station in life; and children should share in the standard of living of both parents. Thus, the amount of a child support award is more than a question of bare necessities. If the child has a wealthy parent, that child is entitled to more than the bare necessities of life. Where the supporting parent enjoys a lifestyle that far exceeds the custodial parent’s living standard, child support must, to some degree, reflect the more opulent lifestyle. This is because, as a practical matter, child support payments will incidentally benefit others in the custodial household whom the payor parent has no obligation to support (e.g., a custodial parent owed no spousal support, adult children or children from the custodial parent’s other relationships). Child support may appropriately improve the standard of living of the custodial household in order to improve the lives of the children it supports. Children are entitled to share in a non-custodial parent’s elevated standard of living despite the custodial parent’s substantially lower income. Awarding supported children a percentage of a non-custodial parent’s future bonuses ensures they will share in his or her standard of living.
No other area of family law brings to the courtroom the tension, anxiety, hostility, volatility and raw emotion of child custody and visitation litigation. Rare is the divorce, dissolution or custody determination in which the parties have been able to set aside personal differences to reach the goal of what is best for the children involved. Most parents pay lip service to this ideal but often cannot reach it in actuality. Most often, a judge will take great pains to get parents themselves to come to a mutually acceptable custody agreement if that is possible. A decision made by a stranger is rarely completely acceptable to all if the attempt has not been made in earnest. The family court systems of the states usually have several layers of counseling, mediation and conciliation to attempt to bring warring parents together for the purpose of resolving the issue of what is in the best interests of their children. If that does not work, the court appoints an attorney to act as your children’s guardian ad litem (GAL). This person’s role is to investigate and advise the court as to what custody or placement plan he or she feels will be in the children’s best interests. In some rare cases, additional professionals may also be brought in to evaluate the parties and give the court opinions. This all adds greatly to the cost of the divorce since the parties pay for the GAL and other professionals.
An order for child support can be changed or modified whenever there is a material change in circumstances from the time that the existing child support order was issued. A material change in circumstances can take many forms. The change can be the result of changes in the supporting parent’s financial situation — such as appreciable difference in the amount of income earned, loss of a job, a large inheritance or a change in the amount of time spent with the children. The material change in circumstance can be the result of a new situation for a child — such as large medical expenses, need for special education or other unexpected requirements. A child support payment can be modified by stipulation between the parents (as long as guideline support factors have been accounted for) or by a noticed court hearing.
My income dropped dramatically when I was laid off from my job and I cannot make my child support payments. Is there any way I can lower my child support payments?
Unexpected, significant decreases in income can be a reason to request modification of your child support order. Before incurring the additional expense of a court-mandated change, one route you can take is to ask the other party to agree to a temporary reduction or deferral of payments. If successful, put the terms in writing and sign and date the document, preferably with the advice of a lawyer. If that does not work, ask the court to modify the amount of the child support owed in the future, explaining the major and unavoidable drop in your financial situation, that the income is not likely to be replaced soon and why the change would be fair. Most courts are sympathetic and receptive to making necessary changes in child support when you have experienced a financial setback. Paying a lawyer to help can pay for itself dozens of times over.
Collaborative law and cooperative law are names given to an attitude toward resolving legal disputes and the policies and practices that put that attitude into action. You won’t find collaborative law in the statutes or administrative regulations, but you will find it in the professionalism and integrity of those who practice law.
Collaborative law and cooperative law can be used for any dispute, most often used in the family law arena to resolve disputes related to the following
- What factors are most important?
Reputation, experience, accessibility/responsiveness, compatibility, style, negotiating skills and fees are the most important.
- Are these listed in order of importance?
Sort of. Reputation is definitely the most important, especially to judges. Judges more often believe lawyers with good reputations.
- How important is experience?
Very. Inexperienced lawyers cave in to pressure too easily or take unrealistic positions, insisting on fighting losing wars to the death.
- I heard horror stories about lawyers not returning calls and not filing pleadings in a timely manner.
That’s why accessibility and responsiveness are listed. More complaints are lodged with state bars because lawyers do not return phone calls than for any other reason. Don’t be shy — ask about how calls are handled.
- I know all this is important, but I just don’t feel comfortable with the so-called perfect lawyer.
You are the most important player in the legal drama — your lawyer works for you in this team effort. Trust your gut. If it doesn’t feel right, it may be wrong.